tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post6117689485532336021..comments2024-03-13T03:40:44.663-07:00Comments on Marriage Sucks: Rolling the boulderAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10716615984203628147noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-4006615966707803412015-05-31T04:57:49.609-07:002015-05-31T04:57:49.609-07:00I'm not sure if those points apply to me perso...I'm not sure if those points apply to me personally because this post was written six years after I married my wife, so we've known each other plenty long enough. I also know that once I put into practice the advice given to me by men talking about counteracting these tests, my wife has put a stop to any and all fighting and drama she used to stir up.<br /><br />Also, whenever she started acting like a pill in more recent months, a quick response as taught to me by other men about these tests shuts her down immediately and makes her act triply eager to please and "win me back." Just today she was trying to condescend to me and tell me to turn on the AC if I was hot, like I was a child who didn't know. I responded without looking, "I didn't feel like it. Doesn't matter anyway: I do what I want." She gasped, then I heard her chuckle, and she later bought me ice cream.<br /><br />As for other men first getting to know women, I think you're right. I know if I were on the dating field again knowing what I know now, this behavior would be exactly as you say: a woman telling me she's not interested, and I would be gone in a flash. One strike, you're out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10716615984203628147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-18337864342832876282015-05-30T11:16:22.600-07:002015-05-30T11:16:22.600-07:00If a woman likes a man, she'll make it obvious...If a woman likes a man, she'll make it obvious and easy for the man - think about it: she doesn't want to drive him away. I think the guys coming up with the idea of female "shit tests" is that they don't have any positive experiences with women, so they don't have a reference experience as to how a woman really acts when she is attracted to a guy and is interested in them. So, the concept of the "shit test" seems plausible to them, when it really isn't. If a woman is insulting you or giving you a hard time, she isn't shit testing or fitness testing you, she just really doesn't like you and is rejecting you. Naive, young and inexperienced guys think she is playing "hard to get." - Nope, she doesn't like them (that doesn't mean she can change her mind about the guy later). A true shit test or fitness test would have to be done over a longer period of time, like in dating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-9216546508118452922015-05-30T11:04:02.769-07:002015-05-30T11:04:02.769-07:00I actually think female "shit tests" are...I actually think female "shit tests" are just bad and rude behavior, not necessarily some kind of unconscious biological evolutionary behavior or "male fitness test" to test men. Women can just be a big pain in the ass for a man, that's all - it's just their nature. I think the PUA's and others that came up with this delusional notion are reading too much into this behavior.<br /><br />See:<br /><br />http://uncabob.blogspot.com/2014/04/shit-tests-sure-whatever.html<br /><br />http://uncabob.blogspot.com/2014/06/its-men-who-shit-test-women-not-other.html<br /><br />http://uncabob.blogspot.com/2014/04/shit-tests-are-for-shit.html<br /><br />http://uncabob.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-shit-test-fallacy.html<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com