tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post8437693955181069123..comments2024-03-13T03:40:44.663-07:00Comments on Marriage Sucks: Marriage misconceptionsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10716615984203628147noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-30438116165560141672018-09-10T11:56:10.637-07:002018-09-10T11:56:10.637-07:00JQ,
I LOVE this blog! I had a GF in South America...JQ,<br /><br />I LOVE this blog! I had a GF in South America. I met her up here in the US, but she went back to take care of her elderly father. We used to discuss moving down there to live. It never happened, thank goodness.<br /><br />Over the last year, I spent a combined 14 weeks down there, so as to not only get a taste of life down there; I also wanted to see what life with her would be like. I spent five weeks in December & January down there, and I spent 9 weeks of this summer down there. It was an eye opener.<br /><br />Do you know that I got a taste of EVERYTHING you talk about on this blog? I mean everything! I did. Life was so fucking routine: get up, go to the mercado, have breakfast, walk the dog, do stuff, have lunch, do stuff or rest, have dinner, walk the dog, then go to bed. What you say is true: a good marriage is routine and BORING.<br /><br />Fortunately, my GF gave me another peak at the inner bitch lurking within; I'd seen glimpses of it early on, but I'd forgotten about it. My GF did many of the same things your wife did. The big one was disrespect, especially about spending my money. I made up my mind to end the relationship before I came back here.<br /><br />I still acted normally though. My brother said to act normally while there, and to leave quietly; the last thing I wanted was drama before I left. So, I acted like the devoted sucker. I had everything, including my passport, at her house. Anyway, I got out of there, and I dodged a bullet. Though my GF can lay on the charm, I kept reading your blog to REMIND MYSELF of what would happen if I continued the relationship. Thank you!MarkyMarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02710045100037253902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-65048271622732051962015-06-21T20:10:42.058-07:002015-06-21T20:10:42.058-07:00I fell for every one of these misconceptions like ...I fell for every one of these misconceptions like a hooked salmon. I hope more men can realize where I went wrong and not make my mistakes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10716615984203628147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8607494518122473059.post-3378807952547465132015-05-25T14:58:01.510-07:002015-05-25T14:58:01.510-07:00This post about the brutal reality of marriage is ...This post about the brutal reality of marriage is often left unheard.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com